randomly read some stuffs online jus now.
Hmm.
Men; a love-hate relationship we feel about them.we love them for their affection they hav for us, the way they make us feel about ourselves
(positive ones), the security that they are able to provide, the way the look at u differently from others tt u know u r the only wan. the way they want to do everything for u
( generally speaking), the way they care for u tt is different from how they treat ppl in general. the way u noe tt they already tried their very best to let u feel loved
( or at least makes u feel tt way).we hate them for not being sensitive enough, or at least to know tt we are not alright at times even if we say "nth."
they will nv learn tt there is actually sth in tt "nth". they will not probe further, enough to get us to tok about what is wrg. we can't understand why they jus cant listen long enough to understand what is wrg. they jus dun understand why we will get angry or jealous when some girls get too near to them. they will think tt we are being unreasonable, because to them the girl is nth so even in close proximate they dun really take note and dun really care.
( but u will care if some guys stand close or tok to us rite? bingo its the same.)haiz. troublesome huh?
Man and woman. we are totally different.we are from a different universe, with different point of views, different outlook, different beliefs, okie, i am repeating i noe. but the point is why can ppl with some much different genetically, emotionally, physically, mentally, be attracted to each other? omg! its more of lyk 2 worlds clashing together. yeap.
man out there. listen carefully. we women are highly emotional creatures. we tink less logically and more emotionally. thus most of the time our tinking will be overruled by our emotions. to a man, it may be a bad ting cuz then it leads to us being mistakenly jealous over some small actions of urs but well, being emotional leads us to empathise with ppl easily, good and bad, cuz we may get cheated or the good thing will be we feel more about certain issues and it also leads us to be more sensitive than man. we will noe someting is wrg even before u say it out.
when we love a man, we will try to do everything to make u happy, feel proud of us.(even if its not everything, its almost there). jus a little appreciation will go a long way in making our day.
no appreciation? we will feel lost, not appreciated as the time goes by, lose interest and well, u wont wan to know the end.
we noe man tinks logically. too logically sometimes, most of the time in fact tt they lost their emotions, tink more like a machine then a human. tts why most almost all mathematicians, occupations tt requires tonnes of formulaes and calculations are topped by man.
but if we start to talk the way like u guys do, wun u feel wierd, pissed or hurt? because some tings in a relationship especially, cannot be answered logically, cuz in this cause
logic hurts, sometimes badly. cuz its blunt, straight and unfeeling. so when toking to the opposite sex, especially ur girl, pls tink before u speak. it jus takes a few seconds and u will be taken as a great sensitive guy. why not? a new-age guy perhaps?
okie thanks for listening to my rantings, but well, its not anyhow write wan okie. go read more if u tink i am wrong.
okie. this is the real ranting part. dun read cuz it may be boring.
the below are all general stuffs. not toking about anyone. jus my opinions and feelings.
i will be very pissed if my bf scold mi in front of other ppl especially my frens or his frens. no exceptions! ( u can scold mi IF I AM WRG when we are alone. tell mi wad i do wrg and i will apologise and not do again. u wan to save face wad about mi? it reads the same and wad will others tink? )
totally pissed if u throw vulgarities at mi in front of others.
(it will not reflect good on u and if there is a first time, there will be a second time, third time...)
i will not make a big fuss in a public place cuz i noe u will be pissed. and in front of ur frenz even if they dun say u will not feel good too. i value my reputation in the public as much as u do. thus even if i want to be more headstrong then u, it will be when we are alone. as u said before, guys have a standard stronger image to potray outside and i agree with u. ( sorry if i translate abit funny cuz its in chinese and i lazy to change language) :)
but a small wan okie larz, hee, as long as its not too loud, over the limit its interesting once in a while. :)
respect is very important between couples and its one of the basic building blocks of a healthy, great relationship.Elaine, i noe alot of things happen and u are down. dun worry, all will be well soon. jus take care, dun tink so much and work and play ur time away ba. at least better then tink and tink rite? will go down and find u when i hav the time. take care gal. have a good week end. :)
Yeah, bling blings!
biibii and mi at illuzion
random photo with love again
mi, elaine and agnes
done :)
waiting for elaine to finish work, haha..
we love to take photo!
meiling and mi at wild wild wet
ling ling at wild wild wet. see my hair?!?!
mmm... yummy!
haha, see there! 
Amelia and mi at powerhse!
yeah, caught a minnie! i got one for u too debbie!
mickey mickey!
